Great Sex and Ikea Furniture

What do great sex and assembling Ikea furniture have in common? At least one thing: teamwork. In this video clip, Sue Johnson, the originator of Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), discusses “the dance of sex” and the importance of emotional presence, attunement, and sensitive responsiveness. In terms of teamwork, she says, good sex is a little like a couple assembling a piece of Ikea furniture together . . . but a lot more fun!

https://www.psychnetworker.org/2018/susan-johnson-on-creating-timeless-passion/